Tuesday, March 6, 2012

TMI Tuesday - A Blast From the Past




This week TMI Tuesday questions are from 2010. There are people who have been playing this game for that long and make sure you check the other entries at the TMI Tuesday blog and compare the old answers with the new.

This week for something different Jake has contributed his answers to the questions as well.

Jake's answers


November 23, 2010Have you ever shared sleeping accommodations with someone of the opposite sex without anything steamy happening? (http://www.playfullyyours.blogspot.com/)
Yes. When I was younger I remember going to a party and falling asleep in bed with a girl but absolutely nothing happened.

November 9, 2010When it comes to swinging or partner swapping, which would excite you more, watching or being watched? (http://virtualsin.wordpress.com/)
I get distracted when people watch me 'performing'. I would much rather be a spectator.

November 2, 2010Would you vote for a candidate caught in a sex scandal?
(http://virtualsin.wordpress.com/)
Probably. I would vote for a candidate belonging to The Australian Sex Party.

October 11, 2010Do you masturbate to porn, and if so, what is your favorite genre? (http://virtualsin.wordpress.com/)
Yes. Being a parent doesn't allow me to have much opportunity but my favourite genre is creampies.

September 7, 2010What are three mistakes someone could make on the first date with you that would automatically make you turn down a second date with them? (http://www.pleasure-principle-hedone.blogspot.com/)
Talk too much
Be overbearing and act like they know it all
Act like a starfish in bed.
Note: I don't date in the same sense a single person would (being married) so my answers are relating to people we would date in the swinging sense.


Bonus: Is your sex drive in park, neutral or over-drive. Explain.
I think it is just in drive. Definitely not neutral or parked but not up there with overdrive. I don't like really fast hard sex. I prefer slow and hard sex. I haven't got a really high sex drive so once or twice a day would be fine if my life would allow me to do that.




Gemma's answers


November 23, 2010Have you ever shared sleeping accommodations with someone of the opposite sex without anything steamy happening? (http://www.playfullyyours.blogspot.com/)
I honestly can't remember a specific time that I did this except with my children of course. I am sure when I was young I did sometime. I remember when we first started dating Jake and I slept together a couple of times with no actual sex just a lot of cuddling but I am sure that there was other shenanigans happening.


November 9, 2010When it comes to swinging or partner swapping, which would excite you more, watching or being watched? (
http://virtualsin.wordpress.com/)
Definitely being watched. I am a closet exhibitionist and love an audience. For a detailed description of a pet fantasy of mine check out 
this post at Literotica.


November 2, 2010Would you vote for a candidate caught in a sex scandal?
(
http://virtualsin.wordpress.com/)
Like Jake I am a supporter of The Australian Sex Party. Seriously though. the Australian political scene is very stick in the mud. We have never had a Clintonesque scandal rock our parliment and given our current Prime Minister (and most of her predecssors) I can't imagine one happening any time soon. I guess it would depend on the nature of the alleged acts and how the person handles themselves. If the scandal is mostly do- gooders minding someone elses business I don't think I would let it affect my vote. I believe that people's sex lives are really their own business as long as they don't involve anything illegal or anything that is causing pain or doing something to someone against their will.

October 11, 2010Do you masturbate to porn, and if so, what is your favorite genre? (
http://virtualsin.wordpress.com/)

I am not a big porn watcher. I think the thing that gets me off mostly is watching live sex either in person or via a webcam.  I don't as a rule cam one on one rather watch someone exhibiting themselves in a chatroom like the ones found on adult dating websites. I really love watching a man pleasure himself it is very horny.

September 7, 2010What are three mistakes someone could make on the first date with you that would automatically make you turn down a second date with them? (
http://www.pleasure-principle-hedone.blogspot.com/)

Like Jake I am going to answer this question in the context of an adult or swing type date. I will note that we sometimes play straight after meeting people in person for the first time so first dates will sometimes involve sex.
A couple with obvious relationship issues is a major red flag. If people don't have their relationship shit together they shouldn't be swinging.
People who are arrogant and act like they know everything also do very little for me
Another big turn off is people who have a chip on their shoulder. This is mainly guys who have a small penis and think it is a problem or people who are a little bit overweight and are really negative about it.
I know this is four things but another thing that really turns me off is a man who is dominating and chauvanistic.





Bonus: Is your sex drive in park, neutral or over-drive. Explain.
Like Jake I think it is in drive. I have a lot of balls in the air at the moment and so sometimes I don't focus specifically on sex. My mind shuts off that part of my personality and I need to be kick started again. However once I am back on the highway I will travel at or slightly above the speed limit.


1 comment:

  1. We love the dual perspectives! Jake's answer to the porn question sounds an awful lot like my own. Gemma's answer to the sex scandal question is sensible and rational.

    Also, the Literotica link was a great read.

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