Tuesday, April 23, 2013

TMI Tuesday - College Stereotypes


This week's questions were provided by Virtual Sin who is a regular question provider and always worth a read for his considered answers. 

1) Have you ever been sexiled? (To be sexiled s to be denied the use of your room Usually dorm room because someone is having sex there.)
I never really lived on campus when I was an undergraduate or ever actually. I did live in a small boarding house for a while but we were all relatively well behaved and there was no on site sex. I do remember once I was studying with two people a boy and a girl who decided to have sex while I was in the same room as them. I had my back turned and thought they were asleep. By the time I realised what was going on it was too late to turn around. I was far to niave and socially awkward to ask to join in. 

2) Were you ever hit on by someone in your circle of friends who knew you were in a relationship with somebody else?
I can't say that a particular incident springs to mind. I think at that time I was happy enough if anyone hit on me. 

3) Did you ever date someone for sex only, i.e. in the hope of a one night stand?
I guess being female precludes me from that kind of activity in the main. If I was attracted to someone I just kind of pined for them hoping that one day they would notice me. I am really glad that I am more enlightened these days and just ask for sex when I want it!

4) Were you ever involved in a regrettable sex incident where alchol or drugs were involved. 
I have never been much of a drinker. That isn't to say that I never got drunk but I don't think I could blame any of the regrettable sex incidents in my life (there have been some) on alcohol. Most of the time they were a result of my stupidity or inability to say no. 

5) Did you ever see a porn movie in an actual movie theatre? Did you see porn on home movies (8mm) before the age of videotape. 
I am not really old enough to have witnessed either of these. By the time I was old enough to WANT to watch porn VHS had it's hold on the world and the porn industry has never looked back. I can honestly say I have never watched any home made porn digital or otherwise unless I was one of the people being filmed. 

6) Did you ever discuss the prowess of a sex partner with a friend? Did the friend also have a history with the same person?
When I was at uni no. I never discussed my sex life with anyone except the people in it and I never shared a boyfriend with a friend. 
These days there have been occasions when I have had sex with the same people as other people and friends. I am a swinger, I have some very good swinger friends, it is kinda par for the course. As for comparing notes. I do try not to tell tales out of school. Sometimes you can't help yourself so I find myself enthusing about a person's skills to a friend. Of late though I have made more of a conscious effort to play my cards a little closer to my chest. This is based on the idea that I wouldn't like people to talk about me like that so I don't really have an idea to speak about them. 

Bonus: Many heterosexuals experiment in college by having their first same-sex encounter. If you are heterosexual did you have your first same-sex experience in college? Did you like it? What did you do? Are you hetero-flexible or did you become bisexual. 

I don't identify as dinky di heterosexual but I am definitely on the heterosexual side of bisexual on the Kinsey scale. I didn't have my first girl-girl encounter at university or anywhere else until I was about 37. When I finally did kiss a girl it didn't really change my life. I do like girls, sometimes. but I certainly didn't have the confidence to approach one when I was attending university. 

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